StayWMe

MrsEO84, on 24 October 2010 - 06:58 PM, said:

Again... how do you know he didn't?  Obvious doesn't fly in this case.  He asked Lisa to marry him.  He surprised Debbie by saying they were going to get married.  I can't say that he didn't love her at all.  He just wasn't in love with her.  Or so it seems.  The thing is, that we can speculate forever.  No one knows absolutely what went on between either one of them.  You are entitled to say what you think may have happened, but that doesn't mean you have a right to tell me what I should think.  When I said that some of his fans are hateful, they are!  Why did you jump first at saying you aren't?  I don't even know you, so how could I say that you are?  You want to pick a fight go right ahead.  I think this website needs to turn purple.  I believe MJ has fans that are bullies, too.

StayWMe, on 25 October 2010 - 04:34 AM, said:

Actually, what I said about the only one he cared about or was in love with was to get on some nerves.  Michaels gone, and it doesn't matter.  No one should be saying what was or is or wasn't.  No one knows, so why say someone's lying and all that when they were there? They lived it.  Fans, and perhaps some friends may think they know, but that's all.

So many of Michael's fans are so hateful.  What gives?  Jealousy?  Why not see that Michael was human, and not an angel?
I think that those of we fans tend to think he was infallible.  It just isn't so.  I'm sure that if Lisa had had a choice, she would not have had to bear the anger and hate bestowed upon her by fans because she is Elvis's daughter, or because she was Michael's wife, at one time.  From what I have seen and read and heard, Lisa is the only wife he truly cared for. Michael was a wonderful man, but he was/is a man, and she had a heart that could be hurt too.  Was she supposed to be destroyed because she didn't agree with all that she had to confront while married to him?

Put yourself in her place.  What would you do if someone else was volunteering to have your husband's baby, when you are trying to keep him healthy and from harm?   Some of us have a lot of soul searching to do.  Oprah, I'm not real fond of, but it is her job.  Why in the world would she care so much about ratings now that her show is about to end?
I think that some of us don't think logically or with the kind of heart Michael would have suggested a human being have.

Any of you who don't agree, that's fine.  Just see Michael Jackson as a human and not an angel or a God.  He could be angelic, and he could make things happen that might be seen as God-like, but like everyone else, including Lisa,  he could perish.  That is exactly what she didn't want to happen to him the way it happened.